The whole point of this “13-Day Adventure to Nowhere” was to desperately try to change the depressed emotional tailspin that occurs between Thanksgiving and December 4th.
It’s Hell Week in every sense of the word. Thanksgiving 2006 was Jena’s last holiday with us, the next day her lungs collapsed, and she moved up to Heaven Monday, December 4th.
Though 5 years have past, the horrific ordeal is replayed in crystal clear clarity every “hell week.” Just seeing the date, 12/4, is a brutal reminder of the last exact date, time and second I held my baby girl.
To know me is to know I don’t dwell in the negative for long.
“If you’re going through hell…keep on going…”
Besides, that’s the last place you’d want to set up shop.
Jena lived with so much zest for life that for me to be miserable for too long would be an insult to her passion of life and all the beauty it has to offer.
…and a unique perspective of it all that enables him to accept what is. Though he too is heartbroken, he has been able to live life to its fullest, not wasting it on what can’t be changed. Eric is an amazing son and I learn from him everyday.
Marc and I had to find our own solution to honor Jena and survive a heartache that seems to not know time. Last year our ‘Adventure’ was a great start and this year we knew we were on to something.
We knew we can’t run away from the pain but rather reframed it into something positive…an adventure of sorts… with Jena guiding the way.
Call us crazy, but ‘The Club’ we belong to, no parent should be a member. We don’t have a choice to go through this hell week but we do have a choice on how we will deal with it.
The pain of not having her to hold, hug and kiss will never cease but like Jena told us,“Pain is not a valid reason for stopping
…so we do our best to make new memories with our “Flying J”
She has shown us that life is beautiful and yes, a fun adventure too…and we need to pay attention to the signs…
the best thing I know for sure is that LOVE NEVER ENDSand it IS the greatest gift of all…
Marc, Eric, and I would not have made it through the day without all the love that came flooding our way either via facebook, text, email, and even phone calls. We were amazed how many people keep Jena, and us, in their hearts. Please know that your love does help heal our hearts, more than you’ll ever know…and that is why I am certain that Love Never Ends and we are never far from the ones we love.